tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post448323479495877349..comments2024-03-18T02:22:56.392-04:00Comments on Disgusted Beyond Belief: My Views on AbortionDBBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.comBlogger316125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-13505886467306102132021-09-20T08:59:10.189-04:002021-09-20T08:59:10.189-04:00Today makes it five years that lord Bubuza help me...Today makes it five years that lord Bubuza help me got my Ex boyfriend back with his spell and we are happily married with two kids, I just want to appreciate lord Bubuza again and i will keep thanking him for helping me get the love of my life back, this man is a God on Earth. Five years ago my boyfriend, who is my husband now, was misbehaving, for no reason he told me it was over between us, I was heartbroken, I cried all night searching for help. 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There are many people who are in favor of <br /><a href="http://www.awomanshaven.com/unplanned-pregnancy-and-abortion" rel="nofollow">unplanned pregnancy and abortion</a> because some times it have to be done.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09627983791621619812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-15219544395924165482015-05-29T23:33:21.819-04:002015-05-29T23:33:21.819-04:00"But if anyone tells me politicians should me..."But if anyone tells me politicians should meddle in what should be between one's doctor and one's self..."<br /><br />Laws are by their very nature coercive; they impose obligations on us. To that extent every law is an instance of politicians meddling with our lives. The politicians who oppose legalized abortion obviously do not grant your premise that abortion is a decision that "should be between one's doctor and one's self". <br /><br />The "pro-choice" position is a rather paradoxical one. It involves the notion that a woman has the right to abort but did not herself have the right to be born. It is a curious thing that an individual that had no right to be born should have any other rights.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-14919048088148336972012-05-08T17:12:56.593-04:002012-05-08T17:12:56.593-04:00I also wrote a blog about abortion check it out :)...I also wrote a blog about abortion check it out :)<br /><br />ben01-blogs.blogspot.co.uk<br /><br />-BenBen01https://www.blogger.com/profile/09206800220471438927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-29232052861779520392011-07-26T01:32:54.181-04:002011-07-26T01:32:54.181-04:00Enjoy your blog just found it... must thank you fo...Enjoy your blog just found it... must thank you for this post out of the ones I have read. I have always been a pro-choice, just because a person should live as they see fit. Though this gives me such a better insight into a person being in that situation. I don't see how people or government could possibly think they have any room to criticize or dictate personal decisions in such situations.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03715815155755683128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-88851030624987871772010-05-15T12:25:52.212-04:002010-05-15T12:25:52.212-04:00DBB, why be so disrespectful to shining? She was p...DBB, why be so disrespectful to shining? She was pouring her heart out with her story. She does disagree with you, but everyone disagrees with everyone!<br /><br />Her story shows that extreme sacrifice can result in rewards in the end.<br /><br />Her viewpoint and statements show that truly life-threatening pregnancies can be terminated even if elective abortion would be illegal (as was the case when many states had it illegal prior to Roe).<br /><br />We know that you don't agree, DBB. Nothing's new from what you just posted. Sadly, your disrespect to other human beings is nothing new either.Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-72330331610788641622010-05-15T00:51:24.338-04:002010-05-15T00:51:24.338-04:00Shining - I hate to break it to you, but there is ...Shining - I hate to break it to you, but there is no god. And your story illustrates nothing but that you made a choice - which is all the pro-choice movement asks. That these life and death decisions for the mother (because to carry a baby to term ALWAYS places the health and life of a mother at risk) are for the mother alone to make, in consultation with her doctor and anyone else she cares to ask (like friends or family). <br /><br />Note that if you had no choice and instead were strapped down in the hospital and told that it doesn't matter what you want to do, they are going to sacrifice you for the baby, then the story would be more consistent with the anti-choice position - the moral of your story seems to be that you made the "right" choice - but how is that relevant if you don't ever have a choice?DBBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-1130300153921629082010-05-14T13:54:52.792-04:002010-05-14T13:54:52.792-04:00A woman who has been were your wife has. Isn't...A woman who has been were your wife has. Isn't it the truth that prior to RvW, medical necessity was not withheld. Why does such a learned man as yourself not grasp that. In fact, that well-known fact is common knowlege to the common person. You and your wife did not commit a convenience abortion for the sake of saving yourselves the trouble of hosting a life unplanned or unwanted. Pro-life supports the end of convenience abortions to be honest. That is what RvW provided - legal euthanasia of a living being that is unable to defend itself - murder. So is captl punishment. Unfortionately we fail on both sides (right and left ) to understand life. <br />I was given 48 hrs to live (tubal pregnancy that was bursting my tube and causing internal bleeding and severe pain). I personally knew that I could opt for the medical intervention but I had sworn a vow that nothing could make me terminate my pregnancy (my "pro-life" husband was trying to force me to abort). <br /><br />Faced with this diagnosis only weeks after vowing to him that nothing (in all his tactics) could make me kill my baby, I sat stunned in the dr's office thinking ... this is it? i have to eat my vow? I asked my Dr, 'is my baby alive right now?' and he said yes. I resolved not to kill my child. The Doc pleaded with me saying that I didnt understand if I wento home it would get worse, by the time I wanted help there wouldnt be time to save me - 'you will die'. I stood up and replied 'so be it'. it took every ounce of physical strength I had to move my legs enough steps to get out of the office and to my car. Like lead in my shoes walking uphill with a tractor beam sucking me back - i strained for the lobby door. Dr's voice calling after me to come back. Nurses faces shocked and in disbelief as I pressed by them. Once I was pulling out of the parking lot a really strong sense of total peace came over me that i have never felt before or since. I went home and waited to die knowing that whatever time my child had left, I would be there with it protecting its last few hours of life and peace. I wasnt afraid in the tiniest bit. I didnt tell my husband or friend or any family members. I had recently given my life to Christ and now I wondered what heaven was going to be like. I lasted longer that 48 hrs but one night decided to pray for my child - i named every organd and thing about my baby that i could think of - falling asleep eventuall. That night I recieved a miracle - heaven came to me. I awoke in the wee hours of the night to see a glowing white figure at the foot of my bed. I asked it 'who are you'. it answered 'I am the one who is sent from the one'. He extended his arm and touched me and spoke in an unrecognizable language and vanished. I felt instantly better. the bleeding and cramps stopped. I went back to the Dr to get another ultrasound and they found that my baby was inside my womb and now was fully formed. <br /><br />I didnt know how to pray because i was brought up in a home that did not practice religion - but I was determined that i wanted my baby to live. <br />I already had one abortion before i became a believer in Christ. <br /><br />God was merciful and forgave my former act - my husband deserted us - I went all the way through a very rough 9 montsh and hard delivery alone - but I know why believer say even in adversity God is there. My daughter is graduating high school in 2 weeks - a beautiful, loving, healthy young lady.<br /><br /><br /><br />God forgives our mistakes and sins.<br /><br />And he loves us even if we dont know it. I didnt know it. but now I do.<br /><br />I know God is good, God is great, God is glorious - the angel taught me to understand this.<br /><br />Note: At the time I faced this decision, I considered myself pro-choice.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02901754882361285955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-69861570167506422012009-02-18T18:59:00.000-05:002009-02-18T18:59:00.000-05:00I agree. I was stretching the context of your visc...I agree. I was stretching the context of your visceral reaction to kill pro-lifers. The visceral reaction, however, is based upon a false understanding of the majority of pro-lifers' intentions.<BR/><BR/>My desires for abortion law are based upon the fact that the unborn are human beings that deserve protection just like born people do.<BR/><BR/>This is about the right to life, a right which trumps all other rights. I am NOT against women's rights as long as those rights do not kill any other people.<BR/><BR/>I fathom that you disagree with my assessment that the unborn are human beings. Read up. Scientists disagree with you. Did you review the link that I gave you regarding the "health exception"?<BR/><BR/>Again, I am glad to see that you and your wife are now healthy and were able to have a child. May God bless you.Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-17007967537807507852009-02-18T18:47:00.000-05:002009-02-18T18:47:00.000-05:00In my post I recounted a visceral reaction I had a...In my post I recounted a visceral reaction I had at the moment I was waiting in a birthing room to see if my wife would live or die. <BR/><BR/>That you now twist this into saying I wish to literally kill prolifers shows me that you are not really serious about having a discussion. <BR/><BR/>You can have all of the opinions you want. My problem isn't with your opinions. It is with the fact that you want to force your opinions down everyone else's throats rather than leave it to individual women and their doctors. If you wish to never have an abortion under any circumstances, that is your business. I won't tell you you have to. Why can't you offer the same courtesy to others? Why does your opinion have to trump everyone else's through force of law? If you want to use the power of persuasion to talk women out of having abortions using honest argument, I have no beef with that. If you want to change the law to take away their freedom of choice and force them to risk their lives to carry babies to term, I have a big problem with that.DBBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-59146465686802449582009-02-18T18:17:00.000-05:002009-02-18T18:17:00.000-05:00In your blog post you stated that you wish that yo...In your blog post you stated that you wish that you could kill pro-lifers like me. You can either choose to take my opinion into consideration or not. Others that read comments on your blog can do the same thing. I also suggest you review the link that I provided.<BR/><BR/>My concern is with both mothers and unborn children. Thank you and God bless you.Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-30562212144547749552009-02-18T18:03:00.000-05:002009-02-18T18:03:00.000-05:00Thus, abortionists (like Dr. Tiller) can justify e...<I>Thus, abortionists (like Dr. Tiller) can justify even the latest of late-term abortions upon this "health exception" even without a clear and present danger to the life of the mother.</I><BR/><BR/>This quote from you speaks volumes - here you are admitting that your problem with a "health" exception is that it allows abortions where the mother's life is not in danger - bringing us right back to where we started - forcing a doctor to let a situation get to the point where a mother's life is threatened before being allowed to act. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry, that is just plain wrong. And who are you to dictate what level of mental damage is really relevant? Shouldn't that be between a woman and her doctor and none of your damn business? Mental health is just as important as physical health. Health is health. <BR/><BR/>Regardless of what our individual situation was, it was still no one else's business but ours. How about we make a deal - you don't interfere in my wife's health decisions, nor my daughter's nor my sisters, and I won't interfere in yours. Leave the government out of it. Isn't government the problem anyway?DBBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-45992887305627863122009-02-18T15:55:00.000-05:002009-02-18T15:55:00.000-05:00DBB, when the phrase "health exception" is used, i...DBB, when the phrase "health exception" is used, it means a plethora of exceptions. For example, take ABC News' reporting just last July: "Doe holds that the health exception permitting abortion after viability should be based on a 'medical judgment...exercised in the light of all factors -- physical, emotional, psychological, familial, and the woman's age -- relevant to the wellbeing of the patient,' as ABC News' Supreme Court reporter Jan Crawford Greenburg noted over the weekend."<BR/><BR/>Translate the law of Doe v Bolton into current practice and it translates into using emotional distress as a "health exception." Thus, abortionists (like Dr. Tiller) can justify even the latest of late-term abortions upon this "health exception" even without a clear and present danger to the life of the mother.<BR/><BR/>Laws regarding ectopic pregnancy are unrelated to abortion laws. Why? Because ectopic pregnancy is a fatal condition for the mother. The cure for ectopic pregnancy is the removal and death of the unborn child. To prevent a mother's death in a case like yours would require the same type of judgment that is required for ectopic pregnancy.<BR/><BR/>The case you and your wife faced was completely unrelated to abortion law. Your wife's and baby's lives were in danger. The only solution was for one to die. What is the moral dilemma? Hmmm... to let one die or to let two die?<BR/><BR/>Again, I am very happy that your wife is alive and well. Congratulations on having a baby recently, btw.<BR/><BR/>Check out the following article with videos for more information: realchoice.blogspot.com/2008/10/and-just-why-are-abortions-being-done.htmlTonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-62471590605893954862009-02-18T11:27:00.000-05:002009-02-18T11:27:00.000-05:00Deb - as far as publishing this - why not just lin...Deb - as far as publishing this - why not just link to it? That's the beauty of the web. Pleny have already. <BR/><BR/>CWoods - thanks - it was a difficult situation, but all of that has now been subsumed by the subsequent birth of my son who actually turns one year old this weekend. <BR/><BR/><BR/>Segamon - my post was not inaccurate regarding laws that put mothers in danger. Prolifers specifically seek to eliminate any "health" exception for abortion bans. The direct consequence of that would be to force doctors to let a situation develop to where it is actually life-threatening before the decision to abort could be made. There's no getting around that. <BR/><BR/>If you can point me to evidence that the prolife camp has dropped that as an issue and is fully in support of health exceptions in abortion bans, that at least, I will correct. But I don't think there is any such evidence to be found. (Of course, I oppose those bans entirely - I think it is between a woman and her doctor, period. It is not yours or anyone else's business.)DBBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-82324976526982239282009-02-17T18:46:00.000-05:002009-02-17T18:46:00.000-05:00My last post was supposed to be directed at C Wood...My last post was supposed to be directed at C Woods. Sorry about the mistake. :)Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-38966912333218367402009-02-17T18:43:00.000-05:002009-02-17T18:43:00.000-05:00Rainbow Girl, I am a very, very pro-life person. I...Rainbow Girl, I am a very, very pro-life person. I am NOT against the decision that was made by DBB. Also, pro-life laws would not restrict this decision by DBB and the actions done by the health care team.<BR/><BR/>This case is somewhat similar to ectopic pregnancy in which the unborn baby must be removed (and thus die) to save the life of the mother.<BR/><BR/>In DBB's decision, it was a decision to save a life (rather than a decision to kill a life).<BR/><BR/>segamonTonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-7352216836557636142009-02-16T01:08:00.000-05:002009-02-16T01:08:00.000-05:00DBB - This post moved me to tears. You did an exce...DBB - This post moved me to tears. You did an excellent job of explaining how you felt ---the emotion was so raw, it hurt to read it. I think many pro-lifers think the decision to have an abortion is always made frivolously. I cannot imagine being in your position ---having to make a decision about 2 lives. Having to decide in such an emotional state without having discussed it with your wife, would have been even more difficult. Many of us will have to make similar decisions in our lives, not just about abortions, but also about stopping life-support systems for critically ill family members. I hope I am not in that position, but if I am, I hope I can do it with even half of your courage.C Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13053858627632648020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-21766763234857001332009-01-23T20:58:00.000-05:002009-01-23T20:58:00.000-05:00Deb, if you publish his story, please do so minus ...Deb, if you publish his story, please do so minus the political statements. The one statement most inaccurate is DBB's thought that Pro-Life laws would have put the life of his wife at greater danger. No Pro-Life law would outlaw a medical procedure that would save the life of his wife.<BR/><BR/>In my previous comment were websites with useful information. It would benefit you to research the topic a little more.<BR/><BR/>Other than these political inaccuracies and misstatements about the Pro-Life position, DBB's post was very interesting.Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-54515826879789610932009-01-23T20:39:00.000-05:002009-01-23T20:39:00.000-05:00I found you via a Google search. I'm the head...I found you via a Google search. I'm the head editor for the Pregnancy, Birth & Adoption channel on Blog Nosh Magazine (www.blognosh.com). I'd like very much to republish this post on Blog Nosh if you're interested. You would retain all creative rights to your work. If you're interested, drop me an email at missivesfromsuburbia at gmail.comDebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13850825844277186930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-24839131617327903902008-12-15T18:25:00.000-05:002008-12-15T18:25:00.000-05:00First of all, I am glad that your wife is healthy....First of all, I am glad that your wife is healthy. I hope that you two continue to remain healthy all throughout your lives.<BR/><BR/>"...it really wasn't a person yet, not in our <I>awareness</I>."<BR/><BR/>You mentioned that the fetus was a baby, then a "bugger." You mentioned that you suffered loss. Awareness doesn't change who is or who is not a person. I'm not aware of who is in a certain house on the block down my street. The people that live there are certainly still persons.<BR/><BR/>Today the laws regarding abortion are extremely liberal. The extreme legality of abortion didn't prevent the fact that your wife came close to death in this very frightening situation.<BR/><BR/>Anti-abortion laws that give the exception in cases when the mother's life is at risk would not have reduced the availability of this abortion.<BR/><BR/>For the most part, us "pro-lifers" that you wanted to kill and rip heads off of wish to protect mothers AND unborn babies.<BR/><BR/>Those who changed from the pro-life to being pro-choice must not know the facts of the abortion debate very intimately. Maybe the same goes for you, DBB?<BR/><BR/>Websites with information:<BR/>realchoice.blogspot.com<BR/>abort73.com<BR/>abortionno.org<BR/>priestsforlife.org<BR/><BR/>I hope that any future pregnancies that you two experience will be safer. God loves you. See ya.Tonal Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03198001091701514327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2925765946042638459.post-54275216672961698982008-11-05T18:32:00.000-05:002008-11-05T18:32:00.000-05:00Neva Li - You don't know the meaning of the word c...Neva Li - You don't know the meaning of the word choice, do you. I am not pro death. I do not rejoice at hearing of an abortion. I respect the right of a woman to make that choice for herself. If she chooses to carry to term, with all the risks to her health and life that that entails, that is also her choice and I fully support that as well. <BR/><BR/>Some might accuse you of seeing women as disposable baby incubators. I really don't know you, so I reserve judgment.DBBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805375811782552873noreply@blogger.com